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Young House Love Book Signing

February 10, 2013 — 7 Comments

My darling husband was my date to the book signing on Thursday night. This was definitely not his thing, but he must love me a whole lot because he agreed to go with me without a fight. The signing started at 6:30pm so I told him we should leave around 5:45 so we could get there right on time and be towards the front of the line.

To help show my appreciation to Alex, I decided to make a good dinner that would be ready right when he got home at 5 (what up senior citizen eating time!). We love to eat dinner tapas style sometimes, so I went off that and did my own take on a recipe I saw Paula Deen make on her show on the Food Network.

Here’s my version of  Eggplant Caprese:

eggplant caprese

It was ALMOST perfect.  I learned the hard way that Romano cheese burns easily…so don’t use it in your bread crumb mixture.  Other than that, delish!

We got to FLOR in Atlanta around 6:15pm. The number of people that were already there was way beyond my expectations.  I was thinking a couple hundred people would be there throughout the night–WRONG. John & Sherry have quite the following!  I guess since I’ve never gone to anything like this I was just really shocked by how many people come out.

As we stood in line it got colder an colder outside.  I began to wonder what in the world I was doing standing in the cold just to get a signature in a book…what was I, a fan girl drooling over Justin Bieber?  But alas, my sweet husband didn’t complain one bit. in line

He didn’t complain, but he looks a bit petrified in this picture.

Around 7:30pm we finally got to the door and were allowed in.  The line for the book signing was actually very fast.  Once we were inside and thawing out, I signed a guestbook that John & Sherry had sitting out and then went up and had my book signed.

Enter awkward Emily.

I don’t think it was being “star struck” or anything like that, but I all of a sudden realized how weird this situation was.  I’ve followed their blog for 2-3 years so I feel like I “know” them, but obviously I don’t, nor do they know me. Then there was the–”Hey, I’m the Emily from the kitchen you featured last week…”  How do you say that and not feel awkward?!  I’m just glad there’s no video of said awkwardness. It was award winning.

Emily John Sherry

Did I mention that when the picture was about to be taken, John said “you can come a little closer” (I guess I was standing far back??) and I responded with “Oh, okay.  I’ll squeeze in a pretend like we’re friends.”  Annnnnnd Emily sounds like a condescending jerk.  It’s my specialty.

YHL signed book

Can you believe that they write little notes in everyone’s book?  I was shocked by that because there were literally about 1000 people there and I can’t imagine how sore their hands must get!

I will say that they were very genuine and as sweet as you would expect them to be.  What a neat life surprise to start a blog, have it grow to be crazy successful that it leads to a book deal, and then you get to see many of the faces that read your blog.  I can only imagine that it was a very surreal experience for them both.

FLOR was a great host for the signing. They had beer, wine, & some delicious looking desserts that were passed around.  They also had a cute Photo booth set up for whoever wanted to partake.

flor

There was also a huge line to chat with Katie Bower, and although I’d love to meet her someday since she lives locally, I wasn’t about to make Alex wait around for that.  He did what he committed to do (and more!) and it was time to get him home.

So, my takeaway from the book signing is that I get awkward when I don’t have time to sit and get to know someone.  I hope it’s a while before Awkward Emily shows up again:)

emily

 

 

Dx: Infertility

February 8, 2013 — 28 Comments

When I started WhatEmilyDoes, my idea was to just write about what I do in my free time.  That has turned in to a blog that’s 99% about our home, because, well…that’s pretty much how I spend my time.  Home decorating is my favorite hobby after all. And while I still put a lot of energy towards it, if I’m going to be honest and transparent here I have to admit that it’s not where all of my energy has been focused lately.

I’m not completely sure why I’m putting this out there and I am crazy nervous in doing so, but I think that by sharing this huge part of what’s a focus in my life right now I can be free to write about whatever I want to, not JUST my current home project. I would also hope that someone who reads this might benefit in some way.

Here we go.

INFERTILITY.  That’s the word that has taken over my world for the past year.

The short story is that Alex and I have been trying to get pregnant for a year.  We knew something was wrong a couple months after I got off birth control and that’s when I first went to the doctor. Months went by, many tests were done, and the conclusion was “unexplained inferitlity”.  Awesome. Nothing better than being told that something is wrong, but unfortunately we just don’t know what.

My OB/GYN put me on some fertility medications called Clomid.  I did three cycles of this drug and still there was no pregnancy.  Each month that went by led to increased fear inside of me.  As best I tried to not get my hopes up of seeing a + on the test, it was impossible to not have a glimpse of hope.  After the 3rd round of Clomid and a negative pregnancy test we were referred out from my OB/GYN to a fertility specialist at Reproductive Biology Associates in Atlanta (RBA).

Our very first appointment was this past Wednesday and it couldn’t have gone any better. Here’s a little of what I wrote to my closest family and friends about the visit:

On the drive to Atlanta this morning I began to feel anxious again. I began to feel nervous.  I didn’t want the radio on and I didn’t even want to talk.  Once Alex parked the car I felt the sting of tears.  That all too familiar fear and anxiety crept up…I was just nervous about what the appointment could possibly hold.

We went back to meet Dr. Brahma and she couldn’t have been any sweeter!  She was so nice and extremely easy to talk to.  She never talked above me (although Alex said he nodded a lot because we talked “medical language”–oops) and proved herself to be extremely intelligent.  And good news (to me!)–I didn’t cry at all! 

I will be doing a lot of blood work over the next six weeks as well as a glucose tolerance test (GTT).  The GTT will show if I have any insulin resistance, and if so it will be beneficial for me to be put on Metformin, which is usually used for those with diabetes, in combination with Clomid.  My thyroid looked a little off to her as well, so that will be part of the blood testing as well.

After that they will do a test that shoots a dye in me that will show if my fallopian tubes are patent and it can also show the anatomy of my whole reproductive system and highlight any anatomical features that might be off.  Dr. Brahma is expecting this test to come out completely normal, but it’s a necessary step to cover all the bases.

Most of the decisions for what will actually happen next are determined by what the tests show.

So that’s where we are now.  The next couple of months will hold a bunch of testing and we’ll go from there.

I just have to say that God has been so, so sweet to me through this.  Even during the times when I was simply mad at Him, He could handle it and just loved me anyways.  I really think that at some point in 2013 I’ll be able to write a blog post announcing a pregnancy.  Until then I’ll occasionally write updates as they come and I feel like it.  At least by writing about it I can’t embarrass myself by breaking in to uncontrollable sobs in front of a group of a few friends and a few more strangers–yeah, that happened.  It was horrifying.  Oh well.

First and foremost, did you see that Young House Love featured my kitchen on a Reader Redesign post?!  Uhhh…and John called my kitchen “killer”.  We can be friends now. Anyways, that was such a huge compliment and all of their readers have been super sweet with their comments.  I was slightly worried I’d get some of the nasty brave-behind-their-keyboards mean girls commenting, but there’s been none of that. Phew! I’m a newby at this blog thing and probably don’t have the thick skin that experienced bloggers do.  So thanks again, John & Sherry! :)

 

Soon enough I can call our downstairs FINISHED!  Well, not really…I don’t ever feel finished, even when a room is all put together.  BUT, what I mean is that we’re getting floors put in the rest of the downstairs on Monday!  That will be the last big-ticket item for the downstairs.

Some people have asked why I’m ripping out existing floors to put new ones in. The short answer is that I don’t want 5 different types of flooring in 5 different rooms that are all attached to one another.  This video may give you a better glimpse in to what I mean–you can see the funkiness of the 5 different floors.

[My loving husband just informed me that I broke the cardinal rule by not turning my phone horizontal to film the floors.  I apologize to all those I offended by sharing a vertical video ;-) I've learned my lesson and it will not happen again!]

We bought some beautiful hardwoods at Floor & Decor last week for $3.49/sqft…and I completely forgot to get a picture!!  Oops. They are Chinese Wormy Cherry–wormy–as in the tree had worms so there are worm-shaped grooves in the wood. Sounds weird; looks awesome.

If all goes as planned then I’ll be able to have a reveal post of the new floors sometime next week!!